Kumusta,
Una sa lahat, gusto ko lang linawin ang isang bagay: Hindi kita hinihiling na bumalik sa ating relasyon o kahit ano pang katulad nito. Alam kong hindi ito ang tamang panahon, na may iba kang mga priyoridad, at kailangan kong pagtuunan ng pansin ang sarili kong pagpapagaling. Gayunpaman, gusto ko pa ring itanong ang sumusunod:
Hindi ako humihingi ng e-date, tawag, o kahit ano pang katulad nito. Pero may ilang akong ideya, at gusto kong magkaroon ka ng isang araw ng "pag-aalaga" na may ilang mga simpleng sorpresa na maaari mong makita sa site na ito, halimbawa. Ang oras na gugugulin dito ay lubos na nababagay sa iyo—maaari itong tumagal ng sampung minuto lang o mas mahaba, depende sa iyong kagustuhan, kung sakaling pumayag ka. Ang pagsagot ng "oo" ay hindi isang obligasyon, at mas gugustuhin kong sagutin mo ito nang bukal sa iyong puso. Taos-puso at may respeto kong tatanggapin ang isang "hindi" (Ako ay isang Pranses, kaya dapat akong maging maginoo 😌). Ngunit kung sakali mang pumayag ka at may mga mungkahi, kahilingan, o panuntunan kang gustong itakda, ipaalam mo lang sa akin, at tiyak na igagalang ko ito.
Nais kitang batiin ng lakas at tagumpay sa panahong ito na abala ka,
Hello,
First of all, I’d like to make one thing clear: I’m not asking for a return to our relationship or anything of the sort. I know this isn’t the right time, that you have other priorities, and that I need to focus on healing. However, I would still like to ask you the following question:
I’m not asking for an e-date, a call, or anything like that. However, I do have a few ideas, and I’d love for you to have a "pampering" day with a few thoughtful gestures that you could find on this site, for example. The time commitment is entirely flexible, ranging from just ten minutes to more, depending on what you’d like—if you choose to accept. Saying yes is absolutely not an obligation, and I’d prefer that you answer with your heart. I would sincerely and gracefully understand a no (I’m French, I must be classy 😌). However, if you do accept and have any recommendations, requests, or rules to set boundaries, let me know, and I will, of course, take them into account.
Wishing you strength during this busy period,
Bonjour à toi,
Avant tout, j'aimerais mettre cette chose au clair : je ne te demande pas un retour à notre relation ou quoi que ce soit de ce genre. Je sais que ce n'est pas le moment, que tu as d'autres priorités et que je dois me soigner. Cependant, j'aimerais tout de même te poser la question suivante :
Je ne demande ni e-date, ni appel, ni autre chose. J'ai cependant quelques idées et j'aimerais que tu passes une journée "bichonnage", avec quelques attentions que tu pourrais trouver sur ce site, par exemple. Le temps que cela prendra est totalement modulable, allant d'une simple dizaine de minutes à plus, en fonction de ton souhait, si toutefois tu acceptes. Le oui n'est absolument pas une obligation, et je préfère que tu répondes avec le cœur. Je comprendrais sincèrement et avec classe un non (je suis Français, je me dois d'être classe 😌). Cependant, si tu acceptes et que tu as quelques recommandations, demandes ou règles pour encadrer cela, fais-m'en part et je les prendrai évidemment en compte.
En te souhaitant bon courage en cette période chargée pour toi,